Proverbs 18:13 teaches us, “To answer before listening—that is folly and shame.” This verse reminds us that wisdom is not just about knowing what to say but also about knowing when to listen.

Too often, we are quick to respond before fully understanding a situation. Whether in a conversation with a friend, a discussion at work, or even in moments of disagreement, reacting without truly listening can lead to misunderstandings, conflict, and regret. Proverbs warns that answering too quickly is not just unwise—it brings shame and exposes our lack of understanding.

Listening requires patience, humility, and a genuine desire to understand others. When we take the time to hear someone out, we show respect, build stronger relationships, and gain clarity before forming a response. Wisdom teaches us that careful listening often leads to better words, wiser decisions, and greater peace.

Today, let’s be intentional about listening before speaking. Before jumping to conclusions or offering advice, let’s pause, hear others out, and seek to understand. Wisdom listens first, and when we practice this, we reflect God’s grace and discernment in our daily interactions.

Author: Dan Nelson

Pastor Dan Nelson, Bible teacher and author, is dedicated to spreading the life-changing truths of God’s Word